I face it every day!

You face it every week!

Few faces it every month!

Some face it once in a year!

But all of us must have faced it once in our life!

Kudos to them those who haven’t faced it yet, I hope you will never face it. Bit sorry I can only hope can’t assure. Because we are in 21^st century and then to we are still facing it. There is not a single day when I can’t sleep dreaming of fear, fear of being choaked, fear of being molested, fear of being unspoken, fear of being raped.

People always blame me, they say I am extrovert, or I am seeking someone’s attention by wearing short cloths, putting lot of makeup narrates I am that “S” girl.

Excuse me!!

You are seeing me with that vulgar thought. You are thinking and taking it wrong. I guess it is well quoted “all men are dog” but not all some are!!

If I am liking you photo that means I am wanting it, if I smile at you that means I am willing for it, if I am talking to you that means I am interested, if I stocks you that means I am liking you.

But if I say sorry you get it wrong. “Will you agree?”

I get dm of d**k pics, I get dm of vulgar double meaning messages, I get dm of proposals, I get dm of people asking for nudes. From where you all get courage to do so. All of us get molested, some get abused at work place and walks away. Some ignores post marital rapes. Few chose silence as her dignity. Few slaps and become that bold one. Few trusts someone and called whore. Some still fear of sharing it. And many more didn’t even know that they are being molested.

This is not my story, or of my friend. But this is reality, every woman is facing.

 “look she is talking to boss…..’ab to promotion pakka’..” “Look she is showing her cleavage……’she is a slut’…”” look she talked to me…’she is interested’…”

Some of the famous quotes!

But I am talking to you normally. Brest is another part of my body, can we please normalize them. I communicated with you generally, why did you interpreted it wrong? Then society blame “us”. For being raped, for being molester, for being abused. And we are still living in fear. We need to teach our son what is the meaning of dignity, respect. At there basic age, we need to teach them meaning of above word. Then I think my daughter will move freely. Else I wish not to have one, if I cant assure her safety and security, then I am not one to deliver her to this shallow world, full of abuse.

At the end I would like to say just one thing. “Let me live my life, freely, without any fear, fear of being raped at 8 or 12 at night, fear of being molester at work place, fear of being abused in school, fear of being mentally or socially abused. Until when can you please answer, I have to stay indoors, but still I get abused.

Thankyou!!